DID Youth Chat


Weekly hosted chat for littles/middles (DID alters under 13) to come together and share their joys and hardships with each other in a safe and supportive environment. Topics have included navigating the grownup world, being heard within the system, and trusting ourselves and others. The format is casual - you're free to share anything relevant on the topic being discussed, or to just sit back and listen to others, if that's what you prefer. There's often a game or a short story too. The chat takes place in the "DID Youth" room, see the chat schedule for times and dates.

Coping With and Managing Conflict
On with Tasha1701D
What does conflict mean to you?
Do you think conflicts are good or bad? Why?
When have you experienced conflicts with others?
How have you tried to manage or resolve these conflicts?
Do you have any other ideas for managing conflicts with others?

On with Tasha1701D
What do you think it means to be a friend?
How important is it to you to have friendships?
What kinds of things do you want to do with friends? How can you accomplish this?
What are some challenges you face making friends?
What can you do to overcome these challenges?

Hard Topics in Therapy
On with Tasha1701D
What hard topics would you like to bring up in therapy?
What makes these topics difficult for you to talk about with your therapist?
Have you tried talking with your therapist about them before?
How did that go?
What ideas do you have for talking about these topics next time?

Coping with Triggery People in Our Lives
On with Tasha1701D
What kinds of people trigger you in your daily lives?
Why are these people triggery?
Is it necessary to interact with the triggery person? Why or why not?
What strategies do you use when you have to interact with a triggery person?
What can you do if you want to interact with the triggery person less?

Communicating and Being Heard Within Your System
On with Tasha1701D
What kinds of things do you want to communicate about with the bigs in your system?
Do you feel heard by the bigs in your system? What are some ways to know if you're heard by the bigs in your system?
What kinds of things do you not feel heard about?
When you're not heard, how do you feel about it?
What kinds of things can you do to be heard by others in your system?

Laughter and Humor
On with Tasha1701D
What makes you laugh?
What kinds of humor don't make you laugh?
Do laughter and humor help you heal? If so, how?
Why do you think laughter and humor might help healing?
How does making others laugh help us?

Adjusting to Change
On with Tasha1701D
What are some changes you have experienced in your life?
How did these changes affect you?
Did you feel these changes were good or bad?
What did you do to live with these changes?
What kinds of things can you do to be ready the next time you experience a change?

Having Fun as a Kid in a Grownup Body
On with Tasha1701D
What are some fun things that you want to do?
What experiences have you had having fun as a kid in a grownup body?
What obstacles do you face when trying to have fun?
What are some ways to alter these activities so that you can do them and have fun?
What other fun activities that you want to try?

Setting Boundaries with People in Our Lives
On with Tasha1701D
What is a boundary?
Are boundaries with others important? Why or why not?
How do boundaries help us in our interactions with others?
How do we know when someone isn't respecting our boundaries?
What can we do if our boundary isn't being respected?

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