So I got a few question. So I'm not sure I am considered to be an abuse survivor on this site. First if my main abuser changed and stopped being abusive then would I be called a survivor? Second if this person suddenly starts the abuse again would that mean I would have to leave fortrefuge if I joined? Also is this abuse being bullied bad in school and having an alter tell me that I was abused but I don't remember myself. Third if those things do not qualify as abuse then if the only abuse was by this one person and they suddenly started it again would that no longer make me a survivor. Basically I'm confused on the concept of what being a survivor means. I feel like this site would be good for me but I need to know if I can even join or if not where else to look. Like I said the person doesn't do those things anymore. However I can't ignore that the pattern may repeat in the future. That's why I need to know.