I was with my abuser for only 6 months, but they were intense. I was only good for sex and paying for things. He would get so defensive and angry if I even tried to bring up how I was feeling. There was a lot of name calling and very mean this said through the whole relationship. At one point he claimto have people watching me and had pictures of me. I never really dealt with the abuse afterwards.
I got into a new relationship a few months ago, and my past had started to really affect it. I'm terrified of doing or saying the wrong thing. I feel he deserves someone better. I question everything he says (to myself, not him).
I don't know how to stop projecting my past onto my present and future. How has anyone else dealt with this?