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    Rape (victim still)

    I am not sure how I got to this site but I'm here and for the past 4hrs while thinking about what I've been through and what I'm going to go through, I've managed to bite the inside of my lip pretty hard. I'm shaking inside but I have to show strength on the outside because I don't want everyone to think that this is all I do. I was a normal, go-to-work everyday woman. I still go to work but I fear a lot of things and feel guilty if I laugh or have a good time. I'm just confused, scared and lost.

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    Hi,
    Glad you found us, sorry you are going through such strong feelings of anxiety I am also a rape victim, and I understand how hard it is to deal with all the related issues. We have lots of resources on Fort dealing with rape, and a help tab that will link you to other helpful sites. I look forward to seeing you around Fort.
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    HeavynLeigh...

    Hear how shaken you feel. Can related. Imo rape is a big thing an utter violation of a person...a criminal act. I hope coming here provides you with the space and support you need to begin to process and heal from this traumatic event.
    Rest in my arms precious child; cradled and warm. You are safe. The war is over.

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    Quote Originally Posted by HeavynLeigh22 View Post
    I am not sure how I got to this site but I'm here and for the past 4hrs while thinking about what I've been through and what I'm going to go through, I've managed to bite the inside of my lip pretty hard. I'm shaking inside but I have to show strength on the outside because I don't want everyone to think that this is all I do. I was a normal, go-to-work everyday woman. I still go to work but I fear a lot of things and feel guilty if I laugh or have a good time. I'm just confused, scared and lost.
    So glad you found this site however it was. I'm truly sorry that you had this horrific experience.
    You are an incredibly brave woman and credit to you for that. You have not one single thing to feel guilty for, the scum who violated you is the one who should carry a lifetime's guilt.
    You deserve to laugh, to love, to live, to know pleasure. I know what it's like to feel as you do and I'm sorry you feel lost but hope that here you can find a safe pathway to help you back to the life that is your right to have
    MadelaineJennae Front Person for "Ny's People"

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