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11-26-2016 - Surviving The Holidays - Dropping the "should"s and finding what works personally for you can turn the holiday season from something you dread into an opportunity to break the routine, create good memories and traditions, and share them with the people you love.
11-26-2016 - Letter To My Younger Self - I want you to know that, no matter how tough it now seems, and how hopeless and frightened you feel, you will get through it, you will dig deep and find and do what it takes to survive...to maintain your true essence.
11-26-2016 - Beating The Monster: Agoraphobia - One survivor's story of recovery: It's a painful and scary process because most of what has to be done is exposure. I wasn't sure if it was worth it, but looking at it from this end I can say it definitely was.
11-16-2016 - Effective Listening - during abuse, listening was pointless because we couldn't trust what was said. Outside of abuse, however, the best way to understand someone is to listen to and - more importantly - hear them.
11-16-2016 - Reporting Rape - what happens when you report a rape, what the legal process consists of, what it feels like to the survivor, what are your rights, and how to make it less stressful.

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