Fort Refuge - Abuse Survivors Support Group
The people here are very friendly. Most of them have been through quite a lot in their lives - which makes them rich in experience, and great listeners, too. ~ Trevor782

WELCOME
TO OUR ABUSE SURVIVORS SUPPORT
COMMUNITY!

Everyone here at the Fort, from the founding administrators to the newest members, is on a journey of healing from abuse we suffered: child abuse, incest, sexual assault, rape, domestic violence, ritual abuse, or psychological and verbal abuse. We feel that all types of abuse are damaging, and we do not minimize any person's experiences. It is our goal to reach out to as many fellow survivors as we can with compassion, understanding, and encouragement. This healing journey we all are on can feel overwhelming and isolating at times. We offer peer support and resources to help you tackle some of the difficult issues faced by abuse survivors, as well as the opportunity to give support to others.

The inner strength of people who, like you, have survived a traumatic or abusive encounter is truly amazing, and we hope that you will find your place among us and feel a sense of belonging here. Many of us battle PTSD. Many are DID/MPD. Many strruggle with Self Injury, Eating Disorders and Addictions. We are each at different places on this journey, but there is comfort in knowing that we are not alone. As we share our stories, thoughts and feelings, confusions and discoveries, philosophical ponderings and raw rants, poems and artwork, light-hearted jokes and craft projects, in essence - our strength, our journey is enhanced by what we learn from each other. Fort Refuge is all of us, as a whole, including you. Welcome!

 

HOW TO JOIN:

Forums and chat are only open to members, for privacy reasons. Becoming a member is easy, free, and only takes a minute (feel free to contact site admins if you need assistance). Please read our guidelines first - we are serious about keeping Fort a safe and friendly place, and encourage healthy boundaries and standards of self-care for all members.

IN CRISIS?

Fort Refuge is survivors supporting survivors rather than a replacement for therapy, and should not substitute for professional care. If you need 3D help, please call one of the hotlines, 911, or your local emergency services. We want you to stay safe...

Who is in chat now:

ABUSE SURVIVORS CHAT ROOMS

Abuse Survivors Chat RoomsSeven rooms are open 24/7 to registered members. We also offer weekly chats hosted by Fort staff:
Next Many Minds Chat is Tuesday May 22nd, 2012 @ 10:00pm ET.
Next Tough Times Chat is Thursday May 24th, 2012 @ 7:00pm ET.

FORUMS - ONLINE SUPPORT GROUP

Forum for Survivors of AbuseCurrently active threads:

LIBRARY OF ARTICLES FOR SURVIVORS

Abuse ResourcesLatest articles:
05-12-2012 - The Karpman Drama Triangle - The purpose of the Victim, Rescuer, Persecutor Game, why do we play it, how to break free, how to spot emotional manipulation patterns in others and yourself, difference between drama and being an adult.
05-08-2012 - The Elusive Dove - a poem by Me1issa.
05-03-2012 - The Game - poem by WCL describing abuse dynamics.
04-28-2012 - Eating Disorders Support Links - basic article on recognizing an eating disorder, and a list of hotlines and websites that might help.
04-14-2012 - Suicide Facts - statistics and tips on supporting someone in a suicide crisis.

Fort Refuge is paid for by site owners and does not solicit, encourage, or accept monetary donations. If you'd like to help out - we have moderator positions available.